1. get sources from here http://sourceforge.net/projects/tinyxml/

2a. modify the tinyxmlSTL project (debug target) and add these to the preprocessor definitions _SECURE_SCL=0;_HAS_ITERATOR_DEBUGGING=0;
2b. set Optimization and Code Generation options in tinyxmlSTL project similary to XBMC project, set LinkTimeCodeGeneration for release target to true
2c. set target name for tinyxmlSTL project (debug target) as $(ProjectName)12d and for release target as $(ProjectName)12
2d. set Program Database File Name for tinyxmlSTL project as $(OutDir)$(TargetName).pdb
2e. Upgrade solution to VS2013
-OR-
2. use supplied .sln and .vcxproj files

3. compile tinyxmlSTL as debug and release lib

4. collect tinyxmlSTLd.lib/.pdb and tinyxmlSTL.lib/.pdb